The Obvious about Adeline


Adeline Visiting the Chicks at the Ranch Store 


My five-year-old granddaughter, Adeline, and I had a day out on the town. Throughout, she walked up to perfect strangers saying things like, “My name is Adeline and this is my Granna. What’s your name? Oh, what a beautiful name you have. I like your name! Your name reminds me of flowers. Flowers smell so good. I bet you smell good, too. Let me see.” (Stretching forward on one toe she sniffed mid-air.) “Oh my goodness, you do smell good. I bet it’s your shampoo. I always smell good after Mommy shampoos my hair, too. But you don’t need anybody to shampoo your hair because you’re a grownup. I have Frozen shampoo at Granna’s. Do you have Frozen shampoo? That’s silly. You’re a grownup, and you wouldn’t have Frozen shampoo unless you have a little granddaughter like me.” (The woman? Not a day over thirty.) “Look, there’s someone else in line. Hi! How are you? My… you have such beautiful eyes. What color are they? Your eyes are blue? Mine are honey-brown, not dark brown. My baby brother’s eyes are blue. His name is Sean. Sean’s not with Granna today. He had to stay home because this is my special time with Granna. Ooh, I like your hair! Your hair is like a cloud—white and puffy. My Mamaw McCauley and Aunt Vonnie have cloud hair. “

By the last stop I initiated a discussion about good and bad strangers and how one cannot always tell the difference between them. But of course a stranger is not a stranger anymore once you tell them your name and they tell you theirs. Then you know them, right?

As a small child, I was just like Adeline. I know this because the family called me Little Margie, and this was usually followed by laughter. Margie was my paternal grandmother who loved to talk. She had a heart as wide as the ocean, but nothing stayed in it. She spilled it everywhere on people, giving them waves of flowers, meals, words, and other pieces of herself.

As I grew, I learned people were not always kind, and they didn’t always want to know me. That’s when my stuffing began, and I learned to keep my mouth shut more often. Who wants to open their mouth and get hurt?


So, the real title and question of this blog is, How Do You Know If You Have a Speaking Gift?  Need I tell you more than the story of Adeline?

Operating in your giftedness always comes with a price whether you speak to individuals, on paper to those you envision as your reading audience, or out loud to a group. Discretion and being led by the Holy Spirit are learned over time and by the maturing process.

That same afternoon Adeline and I shopped she said, “Granna, you’re the BEST!” But in practically the same breath she said, “Granna, do you like it that I said that to you?” No problems with humility or personal acceptance, huh?

Adeline showers approval and blessing on everyone, but isn’t she pouring out of her need? That’s how encouragement and the gift of exhortation are released. Christ meets our needs through his boundless grace, love, and acceptance, and the exhorter gives back. We make knowing ourselves and the Bible so hard. If you have a speaking gift, it’s simple. Open your mouth and dispense His Words of life.

While Adeline sat on the floor playing next to my adult hearing impaired son, adopted from South Korea at age seven, she said, “Good! So good, Joshua! You’re learning to speak English!” From that moment, she continued to model language for him in exaggerated speech for well over ten minutes. Most likely Joshua learned a new word or two that afternoon. Adeline’s desire for him in that moment was to lead, teach, and bring his language up a notch.

Oh, but the heart of the exhorter has more than motives to praise and comfort people. They have strong desire for people to come up higher and be full of the Holy Spirit.

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Are you being true to yourself, exhorter? (Prophet? Teacher?) True to the way God created you? Has He called you out for such a time as this? Or are you keeping your mouth shut. Don’t masquerade as someone else. Your God inspired words are pieces to others puzzles, and without those pieces…

“For as we have many members in one body, but all the members do not have the same function, so we, being many, are one body in Christ, and individually members of one another. Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, let us prophesy in proportion to our faith; or ministry, let us use it in our ministering; he who teaches, in teaching; he who exhorts, in exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness.” Roman’s 12: 4-6



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  • Sally on May 9, 2016

    Sweet Adeline is a breath of fresh air! She’s a heart-lifter and reminds me of bold, beloved Barnabas in the encouragement she gives from what she sees. This post is a good reminder to me to “unstuff”! Take the risk to say the thing you sense the Spirit’s showing you to say. We’re still growing up in Him. ☺ Thanks for sharing Adeline with us, dear Ann.

  • Elsie Brunk on May 9, 2016

    I really enjoyed your blog, Ann. You have a way with words!! Blessings to you in this busy season of your life (with grandchildren, etc.)

    • Ann Cooper McCauley on May 10, 2016

      So nice to hear from you, Elsie! Thank you for blessing me. Coming from you, I know it is heartfelt.

  • Cecilia Harberson on May 10, 2016

    So enjoyed reading this today, but it’s more than enjoyable…it’s making me reflect on how I’m using or not using what God has given me. Thanks, Ann.

    • Ann Cooper McCauley on May 10, 2016

      Oh, how wonderful! I am so glad that it ministers to you. Thank you so much for reading, Cecilia. I’d love meeting you sometime. 😉 I enjoy your Facebook posts.

  • Vonnie Smith on May 10, 2016

    I can just hear Adeline’s sweet voice! She is so precious! Thanks for sharing this story, we all need to be reminded to use the gifts that God has given us to minister to each other. I am very thankful for how you use your words to entertain and encourage me. Love you!

  • Ann Cooper McCauley on May 10, 2016

    Thanks, Aunt Vonnie with the cloud hair! I love you, too.

  • Deborah Bost on May 12, 2016

    “Sweet Adeline” So uninhibited. Reading your blog today blessed me and makes me smile now as I think of that precious little girl spreading sunshine where ever she goes. My youngest daughter “never met a stranger” either. When she was 4 I also had to talk to her about good and bad strangers. She stayed with me at my work in the insurance office. One day she asked to go outside and stand in front of the window just to be outside. I said, “ok but don’t talk to any strangers” she shrugs and goes on out. I could see her from my desk I was just a few steps away. Pretty soon a man comes walking down the side walk. I didn’t know him but I watched her to see what she would do. He bent down pleasantly to speak to her and then walked away. She came running back in the door and said, “it’s OK Mom he’s not very strange. This is the daughter I nicknamed “Joy”

    • Ann Cooper McCauley on May 19, 2016

      I laughed out loud reading the story about your daughter, Deborah. The mind of a child! Thank you so much for commenting. I look forward to seeing you again very soon now. 🙂

  • Nancy Adams Eatman on May 19, 2016

    How I loved this, what a wonderful gift you have:) Adeline is so precious, may God use her in this world to help others find their gift, as you are helping her and teaching her the ways of the Holy Spirit….Bless you and your ministry..Love You!!!!!

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